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The messages yo…
The messages you received from your family or your childhood experiences may have caused you to believe that assertiveness is unacceptable or even dangerous. Practice saying the following: I have the...
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Poly Means Many: Making decisions when you don’t know what you want
alaiyo0685:I needed this. Originally posted on Another angry woman: Poly Means Many: There are many aspects of polyamory. Each month, the PMM bloggers will write about their views on one of them. Links...
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This is a remin…
This is a reminder to myself that I deserve space to sit with all of my emotions and simultaneously not think about anything at all. A reminder that I know myself best. A reminder that I don’t have to...
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speaking your t…
speaking your truth is important. honoring your feelings is important. saying no is important. asking for what you want is important. especially if it means hurting feelings. especially that. your...
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Men want what t…
Men want what they want. So much of our culture caters to giving men what they want. A high school student invites model Kate Upton to attend his prom, and he’s congratulated for his audacity. A male...
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What in your li…
What in your life is calling you, when all the noise is silenced, the meetings adjourned, the lists laid aside, and the wild iris blooms by itself in the dark forest, what still pulls on your soul?...
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I pretend to wa…
I pretend to want things I don’t want and I pretend not to want things I do want. No one gets hurt. Except me. The lines are so crossed and blurred at the point that I don’t know what I want. I just...
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On why it’s worth it.
Boo often refers to reading my blog as “watching me work things out.” That seems highly accurate to me. Most of my personal writing, generally, be it here or in emails, is designed largely around...
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On Managing Our Differences
I said something to JJ yesterday and he saw truth in it and I want to preserve it here to come back to in future times of “aljadlfjadl;jfa;sdf this shit is haaaaard.” I think that this is what...
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Take your attention away from what you don’t want, and all the emotional charge around it, and place your attention on what you wish to experience. —Michael Beckwith (via KEW)
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What do I want from my romantic life? Am I open to multiple sexual...
I want to find a person that wants to go through life by my side as a unit, who wants to grow and develop over time with me, who wants to build a life around our partnership. I want to be with a person...
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